Dating for the wrong reasons — the 7 signs your heart is seeking validation not intimacy

intimacy, dating

Dating for genuine connection and dating for validation can look almost identical from the outside, which is exactly what makes the latter so difficult to recognize. The same behaviors that signal healthy romantic interest, putting yourself out there, staying engaged, keeping communication consistent, can quietly serve a very different emotional purpose when the underlying drive […]

The attachment truth behind why you keep choosing the wrong partner

Attraction, spark, attachment

Attachment theory is one of the most well validated frameworks in developmental psychology, and its implications for adult romantic relationships are profound in ways that most people never encounter despite living them out in every relationship they have. The patterns formed in early childhood interactions with primary caregivers create internal working models of how safe […]