Are these the intimacy gaps behind most relationship problems?
Intimacy is one of the most misunderstood forces in a long-term relationship. The initial phase of romance is a well-studied neurological event. The brain floods with dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, producing the exhilarating, obsessive focus of early love that pop culture has catalogued endlessly. That chemistry is real, but it is also temporary. What couples […]
Best ways to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship according to relationship scientists
The spark that defines early romantic connection is one of the most universally desired and most commonly mourned features of long-term relationships. Its fading is so widely expected that most people treat it as inevitable, a natural consequence of time and familiarity rather than a response to specific and addressable dynamics. The research on sustained […]
Top 5 surprising things that kill desire in long-term relationships and how to fix them
Desire does not disappear from long-term relationships because love fades or because the relationship has run its course. Research on desire in committed partnerships consistently finds that the forces most responsible for its decline are specific, identifiable, and in most cases addressable. The problem is that most couples never learn to identify them, attributing the […]
The importance of mental health in maintaining a healthy sex life
A healthy sex life is integral to overall well-being, and mental health plays a crucial role in maintaining this aspect of life. Mental health encompasses our emotional, psychological, and social well-being, affecting our thoughts, feelings, and actions. It also determines how we handle stress, relate to others, and make decisions. When mental health is compromised, […]