4 findings that challenges long distance relationships
Long distance relationships occupy a specific position in the cultural imagination that is almost entirely negative. They are the arrangement people agree to with reluctance, manage with anxiety, and end when geography finally permits something better. The assumption embedded in this narrative is that proximity is the default good state of a relationship and distance […]
Intimacy after kids has 4 findings that explain why exhaustion is only part of the story
Intimacy after kids is the relationship conversation that most new parents are too tired to have and too embarrassed to admit they need. The cultural script around parenthood celebrates the arrival of children as a relationship-deepening event without adequately preparing couples for the specific and well-documented ways that parenthood suppresses physical intimacy in the early […]
Why your partner’s bad mood becomes yours and how to stop it
Most people understand that living in close quarters with someone means sharing the occasional cold or flu. What fewer people realize is that emotions travel just as easily between people who are close sometimes without either person noticing until the damage is done. Researchers refer to this as emotional contagion, the process by which one […]
Oxytocin has 4 findings that explain why some couples stay deeply connected while others slowly drift
Oxytocin is the hormone that most people have heard described as the love hormone or the bonding hormone, usually in a context that makes it sound like a warm and fuzzy chemical footnote to the more dramatic neuroscience of attraction. The reality of what oxytocin is doing inside relationships is considerably more interesting and considerably […]
Sexual health is linked to 5 surprising longevity benefits that research just confirmed
Sexual health sits in an interesting corner of the medical conversation where everybody has personal experience with the subject and almost nobody discusses it with their doctor in any meaningful clinical depth. It tends to come up reactively, in the context of a specific concern, rather than proactively as a component of overall health maintenance […]