Findings that explain why conflict in relationships argue matters more than what you argue about
Conflict in relationships has a reputation problem. The cultural messaging around relationship health tends to position argument and disagreement as signs of incompatibility, dysfunction, or impending dissolution, producing couples who either suppress conflict to avoid the appearance of struggle or who interpret every significant argument as evidence that something is fundamentally wrong. The research has […]
Sexless relationships have 4 findings that explain why the distance is rarely about attraction
Sexless relationships are one of the most common and least discussed challenges in long-term partnerships. Research estimates that between 15 and 20 percent of married couples have sex fewer than ten times per year, which meets the clinical definition of a sexless marriage, and that a significantly larger proportion experience a level of intimacy decline […]
Best ways to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship according to relationship scientists
The spark that defines early romantic connection is one of the most universally desired and most commonly mourned features of long-term relationships. Its fading is so widely expected that most people treat it as inevitable, a natural consequence of time and familiarity rather than a response to specific and addressable dynamics. The research on sustained […]
Are GLP-1 drugs secretly straining your marriage
The conversation around GLP-1 medications has long centered on nausea, appetite suppression and the dramatic weight loss results that have made drugs like Ozempic, Wegovy and Mounjaro household names. But a growing number of users and medical professionals are drawing attention to a side effect that has nothing to do with the body and everything […]
How couples who stay home together build lasting love
Skipping the scene and staying in together is not boring — it is one of the most powerful things a couple can do for their relationship. Friday night rolls around and the group chat lights up. The plans are already forming — drinks, loud music, a crowd of people nobody is really trying to impress. […]
How to have the relationship conversation most couples avoid until it is too late
Relationship quality is shaped as much by the conversations that never happen as by the ones that do. Research on long-term relationship satisfaction consistently finds that the couples who navigate difficulty most successfully are not the ones who fight least or agree most. They are the ones who have developed the capacity to discuss the […]
The powerful intersection of sexual health and fitness and what it means for your body
Most people think about fitness in terms of what it does for their waistline or their energy levels. Far fewer stop to consider what it does for their sex life. That connection, while rarely discussed in gyms or wellness circles, is backed by a growing body of research and deserves a much closer look. Physical […]
Sex during your period may actually help with cramps and here is why
Period cramps, medically referred to as dysmenorrhea, affect a significant portion of people who menstruate. Remedies range from heating pads to ibuprofen to simply waiting it out, but one option that rarely makes the list in polite conversation is sex. The evidence, however, suggests it deserves a closer look. The mechanism is not mysterious. Orgasm […]
Things you should never do when arguing with your partner
Knowing what not to say — or do — can save your relationship before it breaks. Conflict is unavoidable in any relationship. Every couple fights. But there is a massive difference between a disagreement that brings two people closer and one that slowly chips away at the foundation of trust. The way partners handle arguing […]
Top 5 surprising things that kill desire in long-term relationships and how to fix them
Desire does not disappear from long-term relationships because love fades or because the relationship has run its course. Research on desire in committed partnerships consistently finds that the forces most responsible for its decline are specific, identifiable, and in most cases addressable. The problem is that most couples never learn to identify them, attributing the […]